Our Philosophy
While so much has changed in this world, we believe that good, healthy, enjoyable, long-lasting relationships continue to be built on the same foundation. One of shared values, mutual respect and genuine compatibility. This is our northstar to craft introductions that go beyond the surface- level, focusing on deeper qualities that create lasting bonds.
DISCRETE. PERSONALIZED. EXCLUSIVE.
WORLD-RENOWNED MATCHMAKER JULIE SPANGLER

YOUR TRUSTED MATCHMAKER:
JULIE SPANGLER
The heart and soul of Selective Connections, Julie honed incredible expertise in understanding people’s unique needs and desires with graduate degrees in Business Administration and Human Resource Development and 20+ years at Medtronic, Ecolab, and Ameriprise Financial. She transitioned her skills in executive recruiting and marketing into a greater purpose: helping people find true love.
Known for her intuition, dedication, and modern-meets-traditional approach, Julie combines discretion, compassion, and experience to serve a select clientele. With a 90% success rate and decade of proven results, her greatest joy is witnessing the love stories she-and Cupid help create.
about selective connections
Selective Connections was born from the belief that true connection is one of life’s greatest treasures. Today, we’re more than a matchmaking service—we are your trusted partner to help you find a meaningful, lasting relationship, and perhaps even learn a little bit more about yourself along the way. With a commitment to discretion, personalized care, and exceptional quality, we’ll work closely together, giving you expert guidance and unwavering support to navigate the complexities of modern relationships with confidence and ease.
Julie listened carefully to what I wanted and provided me with the most suitable matches, one of which I am happy to call my wife.
JOHN C.
15+
YEARS OF EXPERIENCE
90%
SUCCESS RATE
19
MARRIAGES
10K+
COACHING SESSIONS
10K+
database members
100%
SATISFIED CLIENTS